Sometimes he might expect you to do most of the chasing. It will be more satisfying for you when he dreams up a fabulous idea for a date because he knows you would just love it. Once he gets to know you better though, make sure you’re not doing all the deciding work. If the sun is shining, tell him you’d love to take a walk along the Seine.
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If you like a bar or café in your quartier, tell him to meet you there for a drink. So, if you fancy going to the cinema, tell him you want to go to the cinema. This sounded perfect until I Googled the bar and saw it was listed as, ‘Un établissement gay et lesbian’. What would you like to do?’ My date then suggested going for a drink at a bar in Le Marais. I’ve been left speechless when I’ve been asked before several of my dates, ‘So, what would you like to do?’ Well, of course, in an ideal world I want to answer that question by saying, ‘Let’s do champagne at Le Meurice followed by the Opéra, topped off with a horse and carriage ride that would leave me right at the foot of my door.’ Once my head stops spinning and I’m brought back to the present moment, however, I have once made the regrettable decision of simply answering, ‘Oh, I don’t mind. I’d spent my whole life believing it was the man’s decision to say where we should go, what we should do.
French men often prefer the woman to tell them what they want to do on their date.